Hey Ben, thanks for your honest post! I don't have experience with the H2 or HF2, but at the end of the day, it may be worth it for you to try a pickup swap and see what you think....probably the HF2 for a more different experience...different magnets and EQ curve. But, to me, what you bring up really resonates because of the journey we're on moreso than the thing itself. I know in my experience, there are certain little "things" in either sound or feel of my guitars that I can get fixated on. A think a lot of it ends up being between my ears, and my approach is usually after tweaking or fiddling with things a bit just to step back, and given the fact I know I have invested in good guitars, I come back and find many good things all over again...and many times what I thought was an issue actually sounds fine or even really amazing and all is right again. In your case, you have a 20 year history with this, and sometimes things have moved enough where we just need to make a change. Let us know how it all goes!
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